denisdman wrote:
I'll play nice with all. Said it many times, I never had an issue with BF just as I have no issue with the big three around here. I was also welcomed warmly at the Midwest site. I just enjoy talking sports, politics, and much of the other banter.
believe it or not i can cosign this as essentially being my views/opinions on "das bagman" and the ppl here. yeah i DID technically end up catching a ban and riding it out for ~5+ months supposedly because i was taking shots at the guy (which i really really wasn't doing, so i just kinda assume i got banned for being me cuz.... duh. you know i DO have a shelf life) but even despite that bugaboo and the odd thing where he ultimately DID tell me i am welcome to come back but i shouldn't, yeah, still despite anything resulting from my siesta here i got no ill will towards the guy and i thank him for having me here for as long as he did and i wish him well in his future endeavors! #PeoplePower! </ReferencesForSpeeps>
this reminds me of this one situation i've had in my social world where my one friend (male) was in love with my other friend (female) and thus was prone to showering her with $$$tuff and all kinds of bar-crawling weekends and sackajaweeuh coins/duh/youknowwhatimean/etc and even tho they were ostensibly BFFs and whatnot, and even tho he was always trying to get her to stay at his crib for up to weeks at a time (proudly proclaiming they're BF/GF) eventually she got sick of his shit (she likened the 1-2 week "sleepovers" as "being locked in his dungeon") and just said NO to him one day and stepped away 100% cold turkey. i did my best to stay cool with both parties, but eventually after a month or two of any convo with him inexorably resulting in me getting the same cycles of ~10-25 texts about how much he loves/hates her cuz "I CANT BELIEVE SHE DID THIS TO ME! I LOVE HER MORE THAN LIFE ITSELF!!!" the dude's next evolution/form was like "ANYONE WHO STILL ASSOCIATES WITH HER IS NO FRIEND OF MINE!"
from there he started flipping out all paranoid like every time i texted him anything, claiming that i was with her and thus i was only motivated to text him cuz i wanna rub it in that i'm still hanging out with her. so while i remained friends with the chick, technically the other friend (who i hadnt seen since like, mid-december believe it or not! damn my life has parallels going on like a mofo,eh?) would stop making those accusations and then just got real quiet. nowadays he no longer acknowledges me and/or any of my continued efforts to remain a cordial/formal friend of his, which of course has to to with his assumption that i'm still friends with ol girl and thus in his eyes i "picked a side" because that's how he saw it, even tho i never saw it that way and did actively attempt to remain the same person i've always been with both parties involved.
so in the end, whether it's biggie or the stinvideostar or whatever.... you wish ppl well and hope they DO do well and all that, but it's always a pretty tricky and/or messy situation when someone wants you to give up your (more active) friendships with other ppl just so you can TECHNICALLY remain friends with them, even if you havent seen them for like 6 months. and it's not like you ever meant to go F-YOU DUDE I CHOOSE [THE OTHER "SIDE"] but when you're put in that situation it's like.... man i actually hang out with "the other side" so no disrespect/harm meant to you here, but this one is pretty much on you.... you know what i'm saying?
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Curious Hair wrote:
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